Fidelity seems to be opposed to freedom. If we strive to remain faithful, it is as though we have amputated our freedom. Remaining faithful to someone is seen as honorable or loyal when the person seems to be worthy, but when a doubt or objection to their worthiness is found the modern mind sees fidelity as a waste. If a person no longer experiences love in a relationship, fidelity becomes optional. What is the point of fidelity if it only causes unhappiness?
Jesus reveals a deeper kind of fidelity that has to precede our fidelity to human beings. We must be faithful to the truth, and that especially means faithfulness to God. The story of the three men in the furnace teaches us how essential fidelity to the One True God is. Being faithful to God, loving God, has to come before any love for human beings, or any place of respect or honor given to them. We must have an a priori respect and honor for others, especially those in our household or who govern us, but that loyalty must always remain subordinate to fidelity to God.