Love is the strongest force that exists. Anyone who is not sure of that has not loved much. But love is not only powerful when it is being experienced in its unitive dimension: it is even more powerful in separation. Longing is produced in the heart whose love is unrequited. When this longing is mere passion, it will eventually fade – but when it is rooted in something deeper and more spiritual it will never be destroyed.
Jesus comes to us in the flesh and kindles in our hearts a deep longing. He does not come to satisfy some passing craving of our heart, instead, after uniting with us He separates Himself. “It is good for you that I go.” “Do not touch me.” The heart that has experienced the flicker of divine love will be constantly reminded of their longing and dissatisfaction with this present world. All attempts to ignore the deeper longing and replace it with something passing result in frustration and anxiety. Perhaps this is Jesus’ meaning for Mary Magdalene: the part of your heart that is drawn, that loves and longs for Me, aim it beyond the dark veil of earth – My Spirit will be in you to guide your heart to the other side.